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Common Culture Shocks (and How Students Get Through Them)

Small, everyday differences are usually what catch students off guard abroad - not the big, obvious ones. Here's what tends to come up, and how students typically handle it.

Most students prepare for the big cultural differences before moving abroad. It's usually the small, everyday things that catch people off guard instead.

Communication styles

How directly people give feedback, how meetings are run, how disagreement is expressed - these vary a lot by country and can feel confusing or even rude in either direction until you recognize it as a style difference, not a personal one.

Food and daily routines

Meal times, portion sizes, and what's easy to find at a local grocery store often take longer to adjust to than students expect. Keeping a few familiar ingredients or recipes on hand can help on harder days.

Making friends works differently everywhere

In some places, friendships form quickly and casually; in others, they take longer to build but tend to be deeper once established. Neither is wrong - it just helps to adjust your expectations for how quickly a new social circle will form.

What tends to help

Students who talk openly about these adjustments - with other international students, with local classmates, or with a counselor - usually process them faster than students who assume they're the only one struggling. Almost everyone goes through some version of this.